I've been doing some deep reflection lately, especially concerning a trend I've noticed among the incredible women I work with – inadvertently drifting apart from their partners due to a lack of personal growth. It's a topic close to my heart, particularly for stay-at-home moms who might find themselves navigating this delicate balance.

While being a stay-at-home mom is undoubtedly a noble and fulfilling role, there's a nuance that often goes unnoticed. It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of child-rearing, household duties, and forget about our own dreams and desires. When conversations start revolving solely around kids, the house, and the never-ending to-do list, things can take a predictable turn.

Your partner is out there, evolving in his career, surrounded by professionals, creating, building, growing, and problem-solving. You, on the other hand, might find your world becoming a bit insular, with days spent in home clothes, sans makeup, and hair unkempt. It's not that what you're doing isn't vital – far from it. Your inner world is rich, and your days with the kids are undoubtedly full, yet there's an undercurrent.

But does this mean being a stay-at-home mom is incompatible with a thriving relationship?

Absolutely not!

I believe in savoring the simplicity and beauty of life when we devote ourselves to our children, but with a bit of wisdom. Below you will find some DO's and DON'Ts:

DON'Ts:

• Don't burden your kids with your entire sense of purpose; they'll leave the nest one day.
• Avoid waking up one morning realizing you've spent a decade solely at home.
• Don't forget to have a financial backup plan. Reliance on your partner alone might limit your options. Picture waking up unhappy in your relationship, lacking the means to change it – a scenario we'd all want to avoid.
• Don't limit your social circle to parenting talks. Expend it to maintain a sense of self outside your family.
• Don't ignore declining self-esteem and disappearing feminine confidence.

Here are some key elements to being a happy stay-at-home mom, one whose partner is crazy about her:

DO's

• Make a thoughtful decision about the duration of your stay-at-home period.
• Carve out time for personal growth, pursue hobbies and passions.
• Prioritize self-care; feeling beautiful and sexy is not negotiable, even if you don't step outside.
• Stay connected with your feminine side and use your allure to deepen your connection with your partner.

In my Relationship Reboot program, I guide moms to find their authentic confidence, feel seen and desired, and experience deep intimacy with their partners.

Check it out! This might be exactly what you need!